A mere victim can’t be an author
A mere observer can’t be an author
How can we rise to the position of author of our own self, own life and own career, when we constantly fall either into victim, martyr or observer state?
The thing is, there is no one and only correct answer or recipe. Everyone discovers their own way and all we can do is to share our experiences, tools and show support.
Usually, the “journey” to self-authoring starts with the search for the solutions of one's problems, pursuit of a certain lifestyle and image of self in it. Anyone who takes a dive into this subject, soon gets totally and irreversibly blown away by understanding that.
Our mindset defines our outlook on everything in our life including opportunities open to us. It is some sort of a “human software” that runs us.
Though, it’s not as simple as reinstalling software on your computer. In humans, it means that software is literally rewiring hardware.
We literally change neural connections. When this happens it even changes our hormonal state which rules our emotions and our health, ultimately influencing our thoughts.
We are holistic beings, and a lasting change requires the whole system of body-emotions-thoughts, crowned with the spirit to move to the next level up.
This is our search for wholeness internally and externally and the sense of inner freedom gained along the way is definitely worth it.
Sometimes it may feel like a roller-coaster but it will never be dull or meaningless again because
